Ryan’s Weekly Takeaway

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Letting Go to Move Forward

The moment we decide to go somewhere new, we are immediately asked to let go of something old. You cannot fully embrace the next chapter of your life while refusing to release the security of the last one. Growth requires movement, and movement requires release.

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It's Time To Expand Your Capacity

For years, we’ve been trained to value intelligence above all else - to be the smartest expert with the fastest answer. But true leadership isn’t about how much information you can hold; it’s about how much life you can hold without collapsing. The future doesn't belong to the loudest or smartest person in the room, but to the most centered.

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Why Millennials (and Gen Z) Hate Performance Reviews

We’ve been conditioned to believe that a once-a-year ritual can fix broken workplace communication. But waiting twelve months to tell your people how they are doing isn't leadership - it’s corporate theater. Growth requires proximity, and the future belongs to continuous performance relationships, not archaic paperwork.

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Is It Hard or Inconvenient?

Some stop because it’s hard. Some start because it’s hard. In a world obsessed with making everything easier, we’ve started to confuse "inconvenient" with "impossible." But muscles, wisdom, and trust only grow through resistance. It’s time to look at why "hard" isn't the enemy, but the entry fee for a meaningful life.


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Understanding Active vs. Passive Hope 

We’ve been conditioned to think hope is something we wait for. But hope isn't a wish; it’s a strategy that requires us to get off the sidelines. Learn how to move from passive observation to active ownership in your life, your team, and your community.


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The Importance of the Pause

Most of us were taught that if we stop, we fall behind. But after 9 days off-grid in Iceland, I realized the opposite is true. The pause isn't a weakness - it’s a strategy. It's the space where we recharge our energy, regroup our thoughts, and remember who we are without the noise.

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How To Do Hard Things.

We have all said it: 'This is so hard.' But why do we care so much about something being difficult? The truth is, hard isn't the problem-our interpretation is. Learn why difficulty is data, resistance is refinement, and how to lean into the hard things to build the identity you've always wanted.

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You Can't Be Everything To Everyone

We cannot be everything for everyone. We can’t even be everything for one person. If you are struggling with people pleasing and the constant pressure to meet every expectation, this is for you.

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Go From A to THE® with Ryan Avery –

Join thousands of others each week, where Ryan shares his weekly dose of actionable insights designed to help us become THE in who we want to be.

Each Tuesday, Ryan shares one practical, implementable strategy that can elevate our leadership and drive results. Whether we are looking to sharpen our skills, inspire our team, or unlock new growth opportunities, these bite-sized tips offer clear, tangible steps for making real impact. Perfect for leaders who want to stay ahead of the curve and create lasting change, Ryan’s weekly Takeaway is here to remind us to lead with purpose, precision and be THE in who we want to be.